Guides: sizing, play and gay culture

Know what you are doing

The right toy is the one that fits, and the best play is the play you understand. These guides answer the questions men ask us every day, without judgement and without fluff. Written by people who know the gear, with links to the products that go with each subject.

Sizing and technique

• Size matters: how to measure and choose the right toy size. Cock ring diameter, cage length, plug and dildo width, sleeves, pumps and sounds: measure once, order right.
• Ball stretching: how to start, sizing and safety. Rings, weights, straps and silicone, how long to wear them and when to take them off.
• How to use an anal shower. Douching before anal sex and fisting: bulb, shower hose or bag, water, pressure, timing and the mistakes to avoid.
• Rimming 101. Preparation, hygiene, health risks and the technique that actually works.

Culture and codes

• The hanky code. Left or right pocket, every colour and its meaning, and where the code comes from.
• The Grindr code. Vers, DL, NSA, hosting, masc4masc and the rest of the profile slang, explained.
• Tom of Finland. The artist who drew the leather scene, and why his men still set the look.

Still have a question?

The FAQ covers shipping, returns, payment and the most common sizing questions. For anything else, mail info@gaysteel.eu with your measurements or your question; we answer within one working day.