Bondage Kits

Prices start under 15 euros for a four piece starter kit, most kits cost between 25 and 40 euros, and the most complete sets reach about 170 euros. The kits come from the Ouch line by Shots, Crushious, XR Brands and Doc Johnson.

What is in the box

Starter kits hold three to five pieces. The Introductory Bondage Kit #1 has furry metal cuffs, a satin mask and a flogger; Kit #2 swaps the metal for velvet cuffs and adds a feather tickler and sex dice; Kit #4 brings handcuffs, a breathable ball gag, a leather paddle, a feather tickler and a mask. Bigger kits add rope, a collar and a leash: the Crushious Punisher has eight pieces in imitation leather with metal buckles, and the Crushious Master and Cummander adds a paddle, nipple clamps and dice to make eleven. The Intermediate Bondage Kit includes 10 metres of Japanese silk rope and a hogtie connector, and the Advanced Bondage set goes up to a door swing and a bed restraint system.

Soft, firm or metal

Soft kits with satin, velvet or furry linings are kind to the skin and a good choice for first scenes and longer holds. Kits in leather or imitation leather with metal buckles hold more firmly and look the part. Metal handcuffs, often with a furry lining, give a real lock but press on a small surface, so keep them a little looser and the scene shorter. The XR Brands Lover's Restraints Set is vegan leather with wrist and ankle cuffs, a collar and leash, two connectors and nickel free hardware.

Bed and door restraints

Some kits are built around furniture you already have. The Bed Bindings Restraint Kit has four velvet cuffs on adjustable tethers, plus a mask, a feather tickler and two candles. The Over the Door Bondage Cross hangs over a door without drilling; its X shaped straps hold the cuffs wherever you want them, for a standing spread eagle or a tighter position.

Size and fit

Most kits are one size and adjustable with buckles, Velcro or a ratchet. Measure his wrists and ankles if he is broad built and check the cuff length on the product page. Cuffs fit well when one finger slides between cuff and skin; a collar needs room for two fingers. Pieces you add later can come from our restraints and cuffs, gags and rope and tape.

Play safe

Agree on a safe word before you start, and a hand signal for when he is gagged, such as dropping a ball or tapping three times. Check hands and feet regularly for cold, tingling or numbness and loosen at once if you notice any. Never put pressure on the neck, never leave a restrained man alone, and keep the keys or a pair of safety scissors within reach. A blindfold intensifies everything, so slow down when his sight is taken away.

Frequently asked questions