Silicone Dildos

A RealRock starter costs less than 20 euros. Every dildo here also stays in its own department, so you can still browse realistic dildos, fantasy dildos and suction cup dildos separately.

What makes silicone body-safe, and how to spot it

Silicone is non-porous: lube, sweat and body fluids stay on the surface instead of soaking in, so soap and water get it properly clean, and it has no phthalates or softeners that can leak out. Good silicone has no chemical smell, feels silky rather than greasy and springs straight back when you squeeze it. Cheap jelly, TPE and PVC blends often smell and turn tacky with age. Liquid silicone is poured into the mould while fluid, which gives a seamless skin and sharp veins; the Fiction Cocks range and the Crushious Inviktus 19 cm are made that way.

Firm, soft or dual density

Single density silicone feels the same all the way through: firm models keep their shape for harness play and prostate pressure, softer ones give more. Dual density puts a firm core under a softer outer layer, so the shaft stays stable while the surface gives like skin. On the RealRock Sliding Skin 15.5 cm the outer layer glides over the core with every thrust, and the RealRock Dual Density Curved 18.5 cm angles towards the prostate. RealRock Ultra models like the RealRock Silicone Dildo 23 cm have a silicone skin over a bendable filling that softens when warmed.

Size: how to measure and where to start

Check the insertable length and the widest diameter on the product page; the total length includes the base and balls. Width matters more than length. Two fingers side by side are roughly 3 to 3.5 cm, a good guide for a first dildo: the RealRock Silicone Dildo 15 cm is 3.5 cm wide. The RealRock Dual Density Curved 20.5 cm at 4.3 cm is the next step. Size queens can take the 8 cm wide Fiction Cocks Deep Riser, or train depth with the Fiction Cocks Infernal Tentacle Demon, an anal snake with 35 cm insertable.

Lube: water-based only

Use a water-based lube with every silicone dildo, on the toy and on yourself. Silicone lube can bond with the surface of a silicone toy and leave it tacky or rough, and that does not wash off. For anal play a thicker water-based gel lasts longer; reapply instead of switching. If a bottle lists dimethicone or another silicone, keep it away from your silicone toys.

Cleaning, boiling and storage

Wash the dildo before first use and after every session with warm water and mild soap or a toy cleaner, including the veins and the base. A solid silicone dildo without a motor can usually be boiled for three to five minutes, but only when the product page or box says so. Never boil anything with a motor, such as the Fist It Vibrating Realistic Wave Rider, and follow the product page for thermo-reactive RealRock Ultra models. Dry it fully and store each dildo in its own bag, away from heat and sunlight; silicone touching other silicone or soft plastic can turn sticky.

How to choose

Start with how you want to use it. To ride hands-free, take a suction cup base like the RealRock Dual Density Curved range. For a partner in a harness, take a dildo that fits most harnesses, such as the SinsFactory Stylish Harness Dildo 17 cm, and see strap-ons and harnesses. If you want a porn star cock, the Boneyard Adam Killian is moulded from Adam Killian himself and comes with two interchangeable bases. For something wilder, the Fiction Cocks Imp Demon is a 5 cm wide monster dildo. Go a little smaller than you think; you can always size up.

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