My Own Filo

This is a good starting point for men who want to try restraint and spanking without spending much. Soft cuffs should leave room for one finger between cuff and wrist, so check regularly for cold hands or tingling. Agree on a safeword before the eye mask goes on, and start with light strokes of the paddle on the buttocks, away from the tailbone and kidneys. Use the spray on toys and hands after play.